Operation Home

So, YAY!!! Thanks to Kristi over at Making it in the Mountains, I was nominated for a Leibster award! This is an award for new blogs, given by new blogs and is a fantastic way to discover and connect with new people in the blogosphere.

The rules are as follows…

– Answer the questions you were given
– Nominate 11 new blogs with 500 followers or less (For several blogs, I had to guess, so if I nominated you and you have more than 500 followers… First off, Kudos! They follow you for a reason. Second, sorry for underestimating. Third, I like your blog, too!) 🙂
– Post 11 questions for your nominees to answer
– Tag your nominees and leave a comment on their blog to let them know they’ve been nominated

Kristi’s questions for me to answer are as follows…

1. How long have you been blogging?

I’ve been blogging since early September. I still feel like a total newbie. 🙂

2. What made you decide to start your own blog?

I DESPERATELY needed an outlet for all of my DIY adventures. Seriously, “obsession” was an understatement. All I wanted to talk about was my projects, so I decided that a blog would be a great way for me to get it all out, but give people the option as to whether they wanted to read about it or not.

3. What is your favorite thing to write about?

I LOVE before and afters. I think one of the most satisfying things is to be able to compare and see concrete evidence of all of the hard work put into a project. That’s a big reason why I included “befores” in my house tour page. Even though some of our rooms may look crazy now, they look leaps and bounds from their before pics.

4. Do you have a day job in addition to blogging?

I do. I work 24 hours per week as an Oncology Dietitian. It’s one of the most rewarding jobs I’ve ever had.

5. If you could pick any other city to live in, where would it be?

This isn’t a city, but I would live in Italy. Anywhere in Italy. I visited once and it was the most amazing place I’ve ever been. Absolutely gorgeous. And, the food. Oh holy crow, THE FOOD. It was so fresh and incredible. And having Celiac Disease, I can say that I ate out every meal and felt amazing the entire time. Never got even slightly sick once.

6. What’s your favorite blog?

Young House Love. It’s my guilty pleasure. The first DIY blog I’d ever read and the one that basically inspired me to start my own blog. I wanna be their friends.

7. Does anyone in your personal life know that you blog?

Oh, yeah. Everyone does. I haven’t started a Facebook page for my blog yet (although, I probably should), so I’ve just been sharing my posts on my personal page.

8. Where do you see your blog in one year?

I see it where it currently is content-wise. I’m happy with the system I’ve got going and the posts I’ve published. I honestly only started this blog as a hobby, so although recognition and popularity would be nice, I’m content whether I achieve that or not. My goal to create an outlet is one that I accomplish every time I hit “publish”.

9. Three favorite online shopping websites.

– Craigslist (although, technically it isn’t a shopping website, per se)

– Joss & Main

– Amazon

10. From who, what or where does your blogging inspiration come?

Other blogs, Pinterest, random thrift store or Craigslist finds, and my crazy brain. I’m sure there’s way more… I feel like I get inspiration from many sources, but those are the main ones.

11. What is the best thing about you?

Oh, geez… Ummm…. Well, good question. I guess it’s that I’m very task-oriented. I never (and I mean NEVER) leave projects unfinished. Sometimes they get delayed for various reasons, but I can’t think of one that I’ve started but not completed in some way, shape or form. And if a project doesn’t turn out how I wanted, I try to reutilize it in another way so that it doesn’t go to waste.

So, with my questions answered, I would like to introduce my nominees…

Starting out southern

Practically Revived

Empty Nest Remodelers

Pretty Four Walls

The Hamby Home

And since Kristi’s questions were so good, I’m simply gonna continue her legacy by asking my nominees the same questions…

1. How long have you been blogging?

2. What made you decide to start your own blog?

3. What is your favorite subject to write about?

4. Do you have a day job in addition to blogging?

5. If you could pick any other city to live in, where would it be?

6. What’s your favorite blog?

7. Does anyone in your personal life know that you blog?

8. Where do you see your blog in one year?

9. What are your three favorite online shopping websites?

10. From who, what or where does your blogging inspiration come?

11. What is the best thing about you?

So, congrats to all of my nominees! Keep up the good work, so I can selfishly continue to enjoy your blogs. And if you choose to accept this nomination, please tag this post when you publish yours. Thanks for rocking!! 🙂

As some of you may already know, my brother Alex lost his life in Afghanistan in November. And I have to say that I’ve never been so grateful for this little blog as I was during that awful time. This outlet of mine gave me a place to write about him and honor him in the only way I knew how. And I’m convinced that this was the most therapeutic action I could’ve taken. I wrote the majority of Alex’s Post the night we found out and I go back and read it periodically, along with the very sweet comments that people were kind enough to leave. It helps somehow. It makes me feel closer to him every time I read it.

I think I’ve been in some sort of avoidance/denial mode for the majority of the last few months (and probably still am to some extent). But, I’ve finally gotten to a point where I’ve been able to handle going through my stuff and the things given to me in his honor to figure out what to display.

I’m not sure if anybody has noticed, but I’ve never been one to cover our home in family photos. We have our living room photo collage, and a random wedding picture as part of our hallway collage, but that’s pretty much it. I’m one of those people who has a few select favorite personal photos that I cherish and then aside from that, I like to display things with meaning associated with them that may not be blatantly obvious to the general public. Things given to us or purchased at memorable events. Things handed down, or that remind us of someone special, etc.

I remember the first time Alex visited our house. His response was “Where’s me??”. I just laughed and told him to not take offense. I pointed out that we barely have pictures of US displayed (meaning Joey and I). Most are of Lucas, of course. But we did have a Green Beret bear displayed for him in Lucas’s room.

The funny thing is, I would’ve loved to have displayed a shot of him somewhere. I just never got around to getting one printed and framed (which in hindsight, is pretty sad). I mean, it’s not like I had to grind the wood pulp to produce the photo paper or anything to make that happen.

Anyways, as I began to go through stuff over the past weeks to decide what to use, I also had to decide how I wanted to display them. I immediately ruled out hanging everything in one place. I’m not sure I could handle that. Emotional overload, if you ask me. So, I decided to start with three items to display in a few subtle places. So that we can see them often and think of him, but not have them be totally smack-you-in-your-face, tear-up-every-time-I-see-them out there.

The first item I chose, was this picture…

I took it in my parents garage in the summer of 2012. It’s my favorite picture of the two of them. It’s the exact copy that I framed and gave to Alex for Christmas that year. It was returned to us after we lost him. I couldn’t bear to change the frame for this reason. So, I took it as is and hung it on our hallway collage wall…

I also hung his dog tags next to his photo….

I thought about framing them as well, but simply hanging them on a nail seemed more him. More casual. For the man who used Tupperware as furniture. 🙂

So, our frame wall looks like this now…

Lastly, I chose his rubiks cube. It came back with him from Afghanistan. His teammate told us that Alex had found it in his barrack (is that the right term? I always get the language confused) when he first arrived in Kandahar and he played with it constantly after that. It’s the way he left it. I love it because it’s random. Just like Alex.

So, I decided to mount it in a display box of some sort. I found this tray from a Melissa and Doug modeling clay set in Lucas’s room and decided that it was perfect…

I painted the back of the tray the same Jungle Thicket green that I painted behind Lucas’s Expedit shelves. Then, I drilled four holes through the middle of the tray and threaded some floral wire through the rubiks cube and through the tray…

I didn’t want to glue it or do anything that might ruin the rubiks cube in case I ever wanted to change it. I figured that Alex would be proud of the blue side that he’d completed, so I kept that side in front. And I hung it in Lucas’s room…

For some reason, I felt like Lucas’s bedside was the best place for it. Like added protection for the little man or something. Plus, it represents Alex’s playful nature… And he sure loved playing with Lucas.

I think the rubiks cube art affects me more than even his picture does (hence the exorbitant number of pics). I’m not sure why it has this effect. It just reminds me of my brother so much. So anyways, I’m not promising that this will be the last art for Alex, but it’s definitely a good start. And I hope that wherever he is, he can see it and approves.